"Be Melting Snow" by Rumi; translated by Coleman Barks.
Tomorrow is the big day: 34-years-old.
I’m not sure why this one seems like such a big mile-marker. 34 isn’t such a special age; it isn’t 30 or 35. But nevertheless, it feels like a big one. Not to say, “I’m so old”. I’m certainly not sitting here worried about that; nor am I trying to solicit a long string of ‘you’re-still-so-young’s and ‘you’re-only-as-old-as-you-feel’s. Believe me when I say, I truly understand that.
More than any physical number of age (to which I have always had a tendency to pay little attention), my thoughts are on the year ahead. As I sit here this morning contemplating the past year, I realize that a year ago I was on the verge of a completely different life than I have today. A year ago, I was ready to settle for far less than my worth in all aspects of my life – health, career, spirit, and love.
Only 10 months ago, all four of those crumbled around me in a matter of days. I tried for a few weeks to sweep up the debris and rebuild my life to look exactly as it had looked before, but thankfully, it was of no use. I finally realized I had been spared years of forcing myself to live a life that was untrue to my soul’s purpose on this earth.
Something surprising happened when I came to peace with all the changes that had taken place. For the first time, I sat back and said, “Now that those things you were settling for have disappeared, what would you like to do with your life?” I was amazed at the responses that sprung to the foreground of my mind; things that I had never knew I actually wanted and (more importantly) never believed that I could, should, or would have.
One of the primary desires that emerged was to write, to create. I respected this desire by setting a side a piece of time each day to write. Sometimes this was hours; sometimes mere minutes. Sometimes I was writing whole phrases and pages; sometimes I was writing a few notes or measures. But most importantly, I began to increasingly honor my soul’s desire to create.
One of the first works that I wrote this past summer was actually a reworking of a Rumi poem set for narrator, choir, piano, string trio, and bells. Several years ago, I had been filled with doubt about the “oddity” of this piece and had left it dormant in the bench of my piano. I rewrote the piece in a few short days, and still had a slew of doubts – Were the instruments scored correctly? Was the voicing appropriate? Could anyone actually put it together? I threw the rewrite back in the piano bench and let it sit for a few months more while I worked on other projects.
Nevertheless, I finally committed to a premiere of the work at “The Goddess Show”, the big spring gallery opening at Planet Earth & The Four-Directions Gallery. I began rehearsing my ensemble at school on the work, and two remarkable things have already happened. First, they are singing it very well despite its difficulties; the voicing sounds like it did in my head. Secondly, and most importantly, two of the the three string parts have been covered by two of my own students – both of which I didn’t know played string instruments as well as they do. Both have requested to play those parts when the time comes. Both have said the parts are “definitely playable”, which is of utmost importance to me since I have never played any string instruments!
I was reminded of this Julia Cameron (The Artist’s Way) quote yesterday:
“Leap; and the net will appear.”
In my 34th year, I plan on leaping a lot because the nets that appear are far better than those fears I had before I leapt.
Rumi said it best in “Be Melting Snow”, the text from which the piece was derived:
Lo, I am with you always means when you look for God,
God is in the look of your eyes,
in the thought of looking…
There’s no need to go outside.
"Be Melting Snow", a chamber-ensemble/dance piece.
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